Monday, January 27, 2025

Survival Kit for Living in the Northwest

 

Oil pan heater? Check. Studded tires? Check. Muck boots for hiking in the deep snow? Check. Happy lamp? Check.

Do any of these items sound familiar to you? Twelve years ago, these things were absolutely foreign to me. But now, after living near the mountains, these treasures have become familiar and useful tools.

When I first moved to the northwest, I saw some strange things. Like, plugging in your car? Who ever heard of that? My husband had to explain how some people plug in a heater that goes around their oil pan, to help the car start on those cold winter days.

Or how about Muck boots? I’d never heard of such a thing. The Arctic Muck boots are some of the best boots a person can buy to trek through the snow. It was a good thing I received these as a gift the first year we moved, because I hiked a few miles home one day after it snowed. I was a teacher at a small country school and would be dropped off early every morning before my husband had to be at work. I hadn’t gotten the memo school was cancelled until I was already there a while doing lesson plans. So instead of calling one of the other teachers to pick me up and take me home, I decided to enjoy the fresh air and walk all the way across town to my house. It was actually a walk I quite enjoyed. Those boots are the best!

I also learned about studded tires. Boy, have these been a lifesaver! They grip the road better and have gotten us out of some predicaments. And I never understood 4-wheel drive until using it to get out of the driveway or through snow-packed ditches.

So, I’d say after living in the north for almost twelve years, I’ve learned a thing or two about the essentials.

Oh and happy lamps! I’ve heard others call them SAD lamps, but I’ve always called them happy lamps, so that’s what I’m stickin’ to. 😊  These are full-spectrum lamps, which are supposed to mimic the sun. For several months, the northern states don’t see much sun, and these lamps sure do help with those winter blues. That along with vitamin D and K. I think for me, the lamp gives me pep in my step just for the fact that it’s a bright light. And I like light. It reminds me of Jesus, the only light in a dark world.

So yes, in many ways adjusting to life in the Northwest had not been easy for me. But after over a decade of living in the north, it’s grown on me a little. The main reason are the people in my community. Many I have met are Bible-believing homeschool families. They are kind and caring, and I appreciate them more than words can express. I’m also grateful for the churches that open their gym doors to families with kids, providing them with a fun place and equipment to play with in a wide-open area, when it’s not easy to be outside in January and February.

I’d never thought I’d admit this, but I think in a way (after much kicking of the heels and screaming haha), the Northwest has gotten a small piece of my heart. There. I said it. Like when you’re first trying to start a fire, and you see some of its glow.

It’s the shine on the snow-capped mountains when the sun is setting, giving that deep purple color.  Or the quiet walks in the woods and watching the small woodland animals scamper around. It’s the forts built in the snow with my kids, the silly-shaped snowmen, and ice creations. But most of all, it’s friends. The people who have shared their love for Jesus with my family, the ones willing to share adventures with us and get to know us.  Friends who have been there during hard times, when we’ve been sick or feeling alone. It’s the little things. The soup made with love, the texts throughout the day just to talk about life, the invites to hang out. I’ve made several wonderful friends in this valley, and I am forever grateful.

So, okay, Montana. You win. Sort of. I kinda sorta like you. (Folds arms across chest).

Have you ever moved somewhere and at first you didn’t like it, and then it kinda sorta grew on you?

 



Friday, November 22, 2024

There's More Going On Behind the Scenes

 


There’s More Going on Behind the Scenes

(picture: standing on an outdoor stage with the hubby)

In my early 20s, I kept having these nagging thoughts. They bothered me to the core. I would fret about them, even late into the night.  I couldn’t understand why a good and all-knowing God would allow such horrible things to happen. Or more personally, why was he allowing bad things to happen to me and those I loved?

 I would look around at people that appeared to have a good life and grow jealous.  Those who had not been affected by poor choices. I started to believe all that was taught to me as a kid in Sunday school was a lie. There either was no God or if there was, he honestly didn’t care about me or the terrible things happening in the world. If he did, he would prevent them all from happening. 

              I would see my Bible sitting on the shelf, hardly touched. How many days had I told myself I would read it, to better understand God and his plan, and then I would get a chapter in, throw my hands up thinking: this is too hard to understand. The language and the culture is different. It’s a waste of my time. I have better things to do and so much to accomplish. Or some days when I tried to read more of my Bible, it was reading the same thing over again, and I never made the effort to dig deeper. Jesus died on the cross. Yada yada yada. Okay. So now what?

Others around me may have thought I had it all figured out, but I was struggling. Had I proclaimed to others I followed Jesus? Yes. And I had since I was a little girl. Honestly, I was scared of the doubts and questions I was having in that time of life. But the real question was: Had I REALLY been digging into what had been written for me in the Bible so many years ago? Had I really unpacked and fully understood God’s plan? Did I realize the life-changing treasure that was sitting right there on my shelf, most of the time untouched? Was I taking the time to study it, or just depending on others to tell me what it said, rushing through to check it off my to-do list?

To be honest, there were things that happened in my life where I felt abandoned. Like God had just left me there, not caring at all what happened. He allowed these bad things to happen to me, right? Why should I even carve out time for him in my busy day? I struggled with my faith for a while.

During those college years, I befriended another woman at the university who later I found out had rejected Jesus. “It’s cool you believe in those fairy tales,” she would say to me. But she hadn’t been willing to study or see for herself. She hadn’t opened the treasure easily accessible to her and see the truth.

I started digging deeper for myself. I brought my questions and doubts to God. My friend-had she ever heard and fully understood who Jesus was? Did she realize that choosing to follow Jesus would be the most important decision she could ever make in her life? A decision that would bring her hope instead of bitterness. Forgiveness and redemption. A purpose for her life and a new beginning. That Jesus was really all that mattered? Not chasing the sins this world has to offer, which only leaves us feeling empty, sad, lost, and lonely in the end.

              The truth is, sometimes I still have questions. But the difference is now, instead of giving up and pushing aside the Bible, I have chosen to dig deeper. I joined an in-depth bible study called Bible Study Fellowship, and discovered it’s a world-wide organization where others are studying the same thing. It unpacks very slowly each chapter of a given book in the Bible, gives background information referencing other books in the Bible, talks about the story of the author who wrote it, and so much more. The study first has you dig into the Bible yourself and answer deep questions. Next, you discuss it with a group leader and other peers, and last, listen to an interesting lecture which goes over what you read and provides even more background information and relates it to how it matters to our lives now. It’s the best study I’ve ever seen.

This year we’re studying the book of Revelation, one of the hardest books in the Bible in my opinion to just read on your own. So far, the same themes have kept popping up. God has a plan for us, and he always has. He hasn’t forgotten about us. Pain we go through in this life has purpose, even if we don’t see it in the moment. Yes, God is still good. Yes, he is all-knowing. And we can choose to trust Him with his plan. He has shown us glimpses of it and proven his faithfulness time and time again. There’s more going on behind the scenes than what we can just see now with our limited perspective.

 Sin- anything we think, say, or do that dishonors God, separates us from Him. By Jesus coming and dying a terrible death for our sins, restores our relationship with God, if we accept it. Jesus is the bridge. By following Jesus, we have the gift of life forever with our creator, instead of being eternally separated. Following Jesus isn’t about checking off a bunch of strict rules but allowing the creator of the universe to transform our heart, and have a real, intimate relationship with Him. “Those stranded in sin find life and liberty in Jesus Christ.”

The book of Revelation, the last book in the Bible, was written by John, a man who was one of Jesus’ close disciples. He witnessed it all firsthand. He was there when Jesus performed his miracles, hung on the cross, and defeated death by coming to life again. He helped take care of Jesus’ family. After Jesus left earth, John had been banished to the island of Patmos, where God showed him things that were to take place and had him write it down. The vision John had of Jesus being the only one worthy and the Lamb who was slain, is where we are right now in the book of Revelation, and I’m excited to discover and understand more of God’s plan for the world.

As I’ve learned through studying Revelation, our time on this earth is like watching a live play at an outdoor theater. We know there’s more going on behind the scenes.

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Legacy for Christ

Who are the people in your life who have made a positive impact on you?

For me, I have several, but I wanted to highlight one particular couple today. :) 


 Picture caption: Our teen group stopping at the salt mines on the way to Mexico.

When I was growing up in a small town in the Midwest, I was apart of a group called Teens for Christ. My amazing youth leaders were named Larry and Marsha. I went to their house every Wednesday night, went on three different mission trips with them, and sometimes to their monthly gatherings called The Edge. 

My first mission trip was to Mexico, and other years we went to Mississippi and Arkansas. I can still remember Larry waking us up super early in the mornings with his joyful singing and a smile on his face, ready to start the new day. He would say, "no breakfast till you've had your devotionals." He taught us how to always put Christ first in our day, and how He was the most important.

Larry was very bold in his faith and would strike up a conversation with people in the grocery store and asked if they knew Jesus. He wasn't ashamed to proclaim the Gospel of Christ, and he loved each one of the teenagers he lead. 

His wife Marsha loved people through her teaching math at the local middle school, helping with homework before youth group, cooking delicious meals, and mentoring teens right alongside her husband. She was always gentle, kind, and understanding.

I remember one evening we were sitting around their living room after dinner and Larry talked boldly about purity and honoring Christ with our love lives. He encouraged people at their weddings for following Christ and the plan He had for their relationships. He talked about forgiveness and repentance.

Although Larry is no longer with us on earth, his legacy of love and boldness for Christ lives on. I think about Larry and Marsha often, and even have two characters in one of my novels based off this wonderful couple. 

May the Lord bless our youth leaders who work so hard and love on the teens!!! Your work matters and will carry on forever. 

Who are the people in your life that have made a positive impact? Comment below!

Monday, September 16, 2024

New Release- Mommy Minds

Check out the link down below to find my new Christian fiction book, Mommy Minds! 

Available as an ebook, and the print book to be released soon on Amazon! 

Synopsis:

Five women from different walks of life. Five storms they must overcome. One important goal.

 When Missy Jenkins finds out her coworker Chloe is expecting her first baby and a midwife plans to deliver, she's reminded of her secret past. The days behind Missy are something she wishes to hide from the world forever.

 The Sunflower Restaurant and Bakery, tucked away in a small mountain town, is rated one of the best in the country. There, Missy encounters the owner Marsha, and a mysterious male customer who both aggravates and amazes her. Marsha takes Missy under her wing, treating her like a daughter, something Missy never had.

 When Missy's new friend Marsha is presented with a scary adventure out of the country, she must choose between staying with the business she's spent most of her life building, or leave the only home she's ever known. With a new visitor in town, Marsha sees a plan unfold that could only be the work of the Master Craftsman.

https://www.amazon.com/Mommy-Minds-S-S-Zemke-ebook/dp/B0D53WMY4Y/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PV60LBGDL5RS&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.EsGT1DrrVyeawf8Pyun9QquBkyqZ-BkvJWjXra-6oVc1qFKVFZSk73l35p3qvgsTrYel8DJ3PHEdQ21FAoS3KMP4rlwqtUZI3Vyf7HHtDHbNbb9gMKCFI6gCiyZp57G1ligZ3O-ciMKU4oCa9NmidakYVwdnzgX1oWimr5s8K_xE5Cp98XcOC3JVV9Zvv0uOfA-cWGl4qT6kWNfnzDdAgbB1KmWUbYvUy7mR3HxICl0.IZc84O8JtSNJPLLhRv_0IdJSNxGcrFOunpzx5EUBOug&dib_tag=se&keywords=mommy+minds&qid=1726492692&sprefix=mommy+minds%2Caps%2C153&sr=8-1

Sunday, July 21, 2024

Children's Picture Book Blurbs

Writing Process:

Some of the ideas I've had for children's picture books are listed below. Some have been written.

Now if only I could find an illustrator who had time... :) I am definitely not one.

-The Birthday Disguise: Timothy didn't expect a game of hide-and-seek before his brother's birthday party to spiral into disaster. When Timothy finds his brother Ben stuck in his hiding spot, he devises a plan. Disguising himself as his brother, Timothy joins the party outside and pretends to be Ben.  But when his identity is revealed and the ruse feeds his jealousy, he must learn the importance of being himself.

 

-The Outdoor Competition: When T.J. and his dad get into a fight, it leaves T.J. angry and confused. Adding to his frustration, he is scheduled to be his dad’s partner for the Father and Son Outdoor Competition. For the event, each team is given three surprise problems to solve. T.J. is ready to walk away when it gets hard. But when one of the puzzles involves building a contraption to get across a river before dark, T.J. must learn to work with his dad, or risk losing him as his best friend.   

 

-Road Trip Blues:  Michelle is super excited to go on a road trip with her family. But when the car breaks down along the way, Michelle is severely disappointed. Her snobby cousin Chase and his family rescue them and extend an invitation to stay the night, making matters even worse. Michelle must learn to adjust to her attitude, or risk having the worst trip of her life.

 

-The Crushed Tunnel: Doug and his friends raid the craft box and work together to build the perfect tunnel for all their adventures. But when their creation is accidentally left out in the rain, it gets destroyed. Doug must find a way to fix it or lose his position as the President of their club, The Mighty Warriors.

 

What are some ideas you've had for writing? Or great picture books you enjoy? Would love to hear from you in the comments!

Monday, July 15, 2024

Children's Book Review: A Chocolate Moose for Dinner

 

Children’s Book Review-

“A Chocolate Moose for Dinner” By: Fred Gwynne

If you’re wanting a good laugh, you should read this picture book.  

Written in 1976, some modern readers may think this children’s book is very much outdated with the puns it mentions, but for my kids and I, this book is hilarious, entertaining, and educational.

The book was written by Fred Gwynne, a famous film and television actor. Some remember him from the show “The Munsters.”

The book starts with, “mommy says she had a chocolate moose for dinner last night.” It shows an illustration of a moose sitting at the dinner table with a little girl. This made me laugh, and I explained to my kids how chocolate mousse is also a dessert, but the daughter thought her parents were talking about an actual moose.

There are many teaching and vocabulary moments throughout the book, such as “gorilla war, pray on other animals, the arms race, airplane hangers, under toe, and a tortoise with hair” to name a few. Of course, they all have a double meaning.

One of my favorite puns is the one that states, “mommy says after she and daddy argue they always kiss and make up.” The illustration shows the little girl watching her mom and dad sit in front of a mirror and powdering their faces with makeup.  ðŸ˜Š

The downside: some of the pictures might be confusing at first or even a little scary for some more sensitive kids. The “scary” part isn’t that bad, but just a bunch of arms sticking up on the ground for the arms race part. Also, there's a part that shows Santa Clause having claws.

For the confusing parts, a parent will need to explain the double meanings for a lot of the puns, but the kids will learn a lot from it.

Overall, I’d give this book 4.5 out of 5 stars.

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